I decided to take the night off from SRL — I’ll be full-time through monday after this — and do some much-needed site updates. I added The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot to the sidebar; I know I don’t promo my own books much around here, but that one is about to come out and it *seriously kicks ass*. To the entry page, I switched the under-18 link to this amazing online sex ed resource for teens (they’re only missing Gurl.com and Boyfriend). Aaaand, I updated my porn page to a “porn for women” page for a couple of reasons. One — there *needs* to be a non-commercial page like this in the world. Two, I got to put a bunch of porn I love in one spot. Three, I included a bunch of things I recommend in my upcoming O Magazine “porn for women” article. In the article and in the “Violet Recommends” sidebar O asked me to make (!!!), I included, among others,
* Tina Tyler’s HandyMan series — one of my favorite porn performers gets straight guys to masturbate just for her — lots of hot men jerking off just for the camera. No plot needed, yum!
* Tristan Taormino‘s Chemistry 1 and 2, and her House of Ass. Sex-positive activist and post-post-post-feminist Taormino (who is a really good friend and all-around cool chick) made these incredible “reality porn” videos where the focus is on female pleasure and porn performers having sex with people they’re in a house with over a weekend — but only having sex with people they really *want* to have sex with. Authentic and incredible.
* Comstock Films‘ Xana and Dax and Marie and Jack — insanely high quality production documentary style videos about couples deeply in love, who talk about how they met, and sex, and then show us all how they make love to each other. Shot on film, thigh-clenching chemistry between people who are sexy as hell and really love each other.
* Jenna Jameson is The Masseuse. Mainstream porn star Jameson is in the role of a lietime when she stars in this film that is the one of the closest things to a regular movie with hardcore sex — a love story — I’ve ever seen. Jameson is an erotic masseuse who crosses the emotional line with a client, played by her (then) real-life husband, in a movie that’s as watchable for the plot and acting as it is for the really hot, lightly kinky sex. High production values and focus on female pleasure.
* Audacia Ray, kick-ass sex-positive blogger at Waking Vixen and author of the amazing book about women’s sexual expression online, Naked on the Internet, had an opportunity to make a porn film with money and resources form a major mainstream porn house — so she made The Bi Apple, a bisexual feature showing a New York hottie’s sexual explorations in the NY sexual underground, and more. If you loved Shortbus as much as I did, and wanted more hardcore sex, you’ll enjoy The Bi Apple.
* Films by Maria Beatty — especially The Elegant Spanking, The Black Glove, Ladies of the Night. Beatty’s films are independently made and distributed, and have outrageously decadent production values — so muc so that they are frequently the belles of international film festivals. Her work is kinky, usually lesbian in nature and often Gothic.
Yup, I really have all of those and more in the July issue of O Magazine. Amazing and oh-so-cool. I also added few porn sites to my porn recommendations page that I think girls like me will dig:
For the Girls * Fleshbot * Vivane’s Sex Carnival * Kara’s Porn for Women * Tina Tyler’s (upcoming) Guys Pop By * Sean Cody * Delta of Venus (hardcore vintage) * YouPorn (good YouTube for porn) * Comstock Films * Oysters and Chocolate (erotica) * Stella Films * Hot Movies for Her * Adult DVD Talk
