Reader nightbird emails me saying, “Saw this while reading a Reuters article on Griefers. Thought you might be interested…” It’s too bad I can’t embed their player, but do visit ‘Love dolls’ woo Japanese men to watch the video (beware: autoplay). There’s no new news in it, but instead a short look at a *serious*…
Year: 2007
Sunday: More Satanic sex panic
My dear friend Thomas has some really interesting thoughts about the 10 Zen Monkeys sex panic interview I posted a day ago, and talks about being a porn writer while dating and living in the very sex-negative, anti-porn feminist climate of circa-1980 Santa Cruz, CA (home of UC Santa Cruz). Image from the truly terrible…
Speaking of fetishes, oh, CFNM how I adore you…
Image via this free gallery. I recently discovered a nice nest of CFNM blogs (clothed female, naked male) via my Australian, female pro-porn pal Ms. Naughty’s superlative CFNM resource guide. They’re all connected somehow, and link to affiliate paysites, but the pics and video samples are all free and a whole hell of a lot…
A fidelity fetish
Monogamy is its own kind of fetish. To wit: the heteronormative, yet consumable in a disposable, bag-o-chips kind of way article in the Guardian UK today, Is anyone faithful any more? I love these articles for all the sweeping assumptions and generalizations they make, like reading Star Magazine, but for the perceived “cheating is an…
Non-sex post: My thoughts on Ocean vs. iPhone
Is here.
Sex panics and the perils of protecting everyone from sex
I’ve been mulling over a few articles I want to write lately about sex-related things done “for the children”, like sex offender registries, obscenity legislation and adult porn censorship. These thought patterns have me currently re-reading Judith Levine’s terrific book Harmful to Minors (which has prompted spontaneous, between-the-sheets readings from the book to Hacker Boy…
Dear lazyweb
Please help. My Wikipedia page does me no justice whatsoever. My press and publicity page has more info — and that’s not much. All I want for christmas is a Wikipedia page that looks like everyone else’s, rather than just a dry list of my books (and not even including the ones I’ve contributed to).…
Day shift strippers: Today’s column
One of my favorite, and more personal, columns is today’s Day Shift Strippers: Lazy Saturday in North Beach. Here, I describe what Hacker Boy and I got up to last weekend, snip: This story, like all good San Francisco stories, begins at the tail end of a chilly-and-sunburned Gay Pride Sunday afternoon, and winds up…
Found it!
My G-spot, location according to Google Maps. Was in a room of friends yesterday who were giddily reading parts of The Smart Girl’s Guide to the G-Spot aloud (over cocktails) and Hacker Boy said, “Hold on, I’ll find it!”
Happy porn of July
Scooter was commuted. Obscenity prosecutions are willfully heading toward Comstock-era proportions. Bill O’Reilly is “news”. Gitmo, Gitmo, Gitmo. Nice place we got here, eh? Actually, it’s pretty nice, despite our government’s best efforts of late. Exercise your San Francisco values today and enjoy a little porn that flaunts your rights as an adult. Namely, check…