When out at lunch with a friend recently, she asked for some serious sexual advice for her friend. Her friend, it turns out (and really, it was her friend, not herself) — her friend is a 22 year old woman who has never had an orgasm. Miss 22, she found out, had told her this…
Month: November 2009
Hot boy Thursday: Thankful for East Village Boys
Hot Boy Thursday is irregular in updates, but always brings you quality hotness. This HBT is brought to us by East Village Boys (via Love and Let Love, apocalips.tumblr.com), featuring one of their previous boys of the week Matthew, from Brooklyn photographed by Nodeth Vang. Visit the site for much more.
Thankful for every imperfection
Image by the delightful photographer, Many rivers to cross. Reading over the latest news about cosmetic vaginal surgery on the increase in the UK, I kept thinking about last Saturday when I was at the Femina Potens gallery. I remembered the final scene of the night’s performances, where beautiful model Madison Young (and gallery owner)…
Is Twilight a gateway drug for objectifying men?
Image by UrbanPhotographer2007. I just couldn’t resist the title after the last post. Here’s an interesting post about looking at men as mere sex objects for our consumption, based around the growing obsession with Twilight’s Robert Pattinson. It’s a pretty heteronormative view, but try it on as a reflection of what’s changing in mainstream female…
Female sexual desires and male misplaced chivalry
The question I posed: An email is making me wonder — are men more disturbed by certain sexual fantasy situations than women out of a misplaced sense of chivalry? Last week I got an email from friends (a couple) who run a fetish website that is about fantasies involving female submission in scenarios that include…
Do not forget: The rules of prime time homo hypocrisy
Who knew anyone could make American Idol culturally relevant? Even my (very) straight male friends have been sending these news items in disbelief, like: > “They just can’t believe the nature of the content, the explicit nature, and how much graphic content there was.” (BBC News: Adam Lambert’s gay kiss on stage gets 1,500 complaints)…
Do not forget: The rules of doppleganger sex
Since we’re ready for a season of sequels and plotlines that jump the shark (such as doppelgangers and evil clones/twins), it makes sense to remind you all of the rules surrounding doppleganger sex. (via sex is not the enemy; originally in this awful and hilarious Something Awful Photoshop contest chock full of many life lessons,…
Pure adorable, pure pleasure, pure design pr0n: Jimmyjane’s new Form 2 video
My pals at Jimmyjane *just* sent me their new video for the Form 2 (made with designer Yves Béhar)– the high-end designer vibe that everyone wants. The video is utterly adorable and shows you why it’s such a hot item (and it’ll make you smile, I promise, even if you hate smiling). I’ve seen a…
Fashion and lullabyes: Plato’s Atlantis by Alexander McQueen
Slow and moody but very sexy: here is designer Alexander McQueen’s video for the Spring Summer 2010 line, “Plato’s Atlantis Part 1.” (via ponyXpress)
The Art of Restraint through my Android’s simulated voyeurcam
Last saturday I had the opportunity to attend this season’s Art of Restraint at feminist art gallery Femina Potens, where the theme was gratitude. For those of you outside the US, that was a nod at Thanksgiving, our contrived holiday about giving thanks for a mythological event having to do with pilgrims and Native Americans…