I don’t know why Andrew Blake likes me so much, but I *love* him and his work so I don’t have a single complaint about getting a gigantic gift from him and his minions: a big, big file full of exclusive, explicit fetish stills from a variety of his works. YAY! I have so many…
Year: 2009
SF Weekly’s Matt Smith Screws Kink.com: Unfair, Unbalanced, Malfeasant Journalism
Self-portrait goofing around with Peter Acworth. Things exploded here in San Francisco this week with Kink.com when two things happened: one, Kink got kicked out of a local state funded, nonprofit job enhancement training program — BAVC. I know a couple readers here not only have attended BAVC, but also have taught there, and are…
Bisexual chaser
Image by I Just Can’t Get Enough in Edinburgh. This week’s column was inspired by all the commentary and controversy here and on my Flickr stream about the straight/bi/gay/lesbian stereotype exercise and it came out pretty snarky and confrontational — in other words, I love it. I’ve gotten some great feedback on it, too. I…
Agent Provocateur’s sexy “Kinky Melody” video
The exquisite Kinky Melody video by Dirty Stop Out is a lot like an evening with the Extra Action Marching Band, complete with a hella sexy horn section. But I don’t know if anyone’s even been whipped over a barrel at a gig… yet. The exclusive, no sign-in direct link to the video is here.…
Want: Ilya Fleet Leather Cane
I actually want one of everything from Co Co deMer, but the Ilya Fleet Leather Cane really got me. So did the Ilya Fleet Leather Tail Harness — big, big WANT. ::sigh
Kink introduces pure delicious debauchery: The Upper Floor
Image by Cinema Cowgirl. Check out Kink‘s new/upcoming enterprise, The Upper Floor. I got a peek at it today, and the sweethearts at Kink wrangled me a link just for you. Kink.com has spent 11 years producing quality BDSM entertainment, with a view to celebrating and demystifying alternative sexualities. Much of Kink.com’s material has been…
The ultimate post-Ballard post
Image via ALYCIA. Yes, my best friend wrote it and he mentions me in it but *whatever* — we’re all writers and crazy and dogs, and this piece has blown my mind. Read the best Ballard obit to come out of all the limelighting and grandstanding by his so-called friends, publisher assholes trying to cash…
A lovely random find
Image by lazareva valeria; see more of her gorgeous photography here.
Mutsugoto: I’ll sign up to beta test this one too, plz
This tech art ‘intimacy device’ looks really fun, sweet and sexy to play with — and I’m fairly certain I can find a test bunny to sign onto the project with. Possibly maybe. *But* I’d also like to work in the idea that this would be an *extremely* good reason to make my way to…
Stereotypes and assumptions: Sexual orientation
stereotypes + assumptions: straight male This is generating a lot of extremely interesting discussion on my Flickr photo stream, so I thought you might like to check it out. Last weekend I participated in a sex ed training exercise about stereotypes and assumptions regarding sexual orientation. Remember, sexual orientation isn’t a choice — like, if…