I submit that in every unfunny, sex-negative rendition of the broke-ass “Porn For Women” joke, there’s a Sexy Geek List or a Hot Guys Reading Books struggling to be born in the flames of a super-dirty all-girl threesome between the engorged clitoris, the frontal lobe and the limbic system. Sure, some women out there may…
The most stalkable people on the planet have been labeled as diseased and had their names and home addresses published online (“Porn Wikileaks“) and CNET reported the situation with a snarky reprimand about being sex workers. It didn’t go unnoticed, and they got called on it in this now-timeless post: Dear Sex Worker Hater (Miss…
This past weekend saw the Sex::Tech conference here in San Francisco, which I regrettably missed. Sex educators from all over the world (but mainly North America) converged on The City for the 4th annual conference on new media, youth and sexual health. Many friends and people I admire were in attendance (I am home fighting…
This past week, New Scientist reported that Restless Legs Syndrome may be improved by masturbation. But the science NS reports on is neither science nor new. That puts me in the truly bizarre position of having to hold down the anti-masturbation side of this debate — which, if you know me, is pretty freakin’ weird.…
I had no idea until I read this that Julia Allison had been targeted for allegedly being a blowjob queen. Things would be a lot more exciting around Sili Valley if it were actually true. Trust me: observing sex culture and tech culture simultaneously most of my adult life has shown me that Silicon Valley…
If you have ever been AIM (Adult Industry Medical Foundation) tested for any reason, whether or not you are a sex worker, porn performer or “porn star” your personal and private information has been published publicly at so-called “Porn Wikileaks” (pornwikileaks.com). That website is, in fact, a copy of Wikileaks with the word “porn” added…
Another delightful installment in Weekly Want! Partly an excuse to post the above video, but with sincere longing for a piece from Nichole de Carle Lingerie‘s exquisite collections – the straps, oh the straps. Want: The Last Testament Bra (£145.00), and The Last Testament Brief With Braces (£85.00). What I want the most: The Opal…
I found Quickies in New York back in February, and felt it was finally time to share this fun project with you – I wanted to wait to see if it kept its direction, or lost steam (as sadly so often happens with cool sex blogs like this). Quickies in New York is a delightful…
Is it good news or bad news that Scott Adams is the one who can’t stop talking about his recent gender faux pas? Or that he is so convinced of his own importance that he is convinced the rest of us still give a shit? Or that he’s now attempting to express what he assumes…
Behold: Babeland’s Vibrella. “… what appears to onlookers as an ordinary (albeit attractive!) umbrella is actually a waterproof vibrator that records and stores the vibrations from falling rain.” Singing in the rain, indeed. ;) PS: A shout out and big thank you to Babeland for donating several sexy gift packages to the Sex And Dating…