I read the NYT’s short drive-by today, Behavior: They Report Abstinence, but S.T.D. Says Otherwise by Nicholas Bakalar. (Nice title, very thoughtful.) Before this starts spreading throughout the media I feel it’s really important to point out why this article is a massive piece of misinformation in disguise, one that could be really damaging to…

I’m honored to announce that I’m judging Filament Magazine’s first erotic fiction competition! Filament is “the thinking woman’s crumpet” – an erotic magazine by women, for women, with a lot of male eye candy. It has been suggested that UK-based Filament is a hip indie rival to America’s Playgirl Magazine – if Playgirl was hot!…

Friday night: porn stars Jesse Jane and Riley Steele; dingleberry David Spade. From Riley Steele’s Twitter feed. Two conventions in Las Vegas, Nevada are in full swing right now: CES, a convention of gadget porn and hype, and AVN – a convention branded by a porn magazine centering around an awards show that recognizes one…

With over 6000 responses, the 4chan sex survey (LINK UPDATED) may be the largest sex survey yet. It’s quite comprehensive, and bracingly honest: I think that’s the beauty of 4chan and its inherent anonymity – and of non-state sponsored, non-commercial sex surveys. It’s going to upset some people, but to a good many of us…

I do my best to blog with opinion and not judgement. But as you may know, sometimes, I do jump on a chair and squeek a bit of OMG, girl you didn’t. It’s the season of goodwill and stuff, and maybe the fact that I spent what was supposed to be a lovely holiday with…

It’s been a year of outstanding sexiness, and a time when geeks come in a dazzling, pulse-quickening array of flavors. As more and more people are hip to online life, the world of sexy geeks expands – with authentic sexy geeks, and those of us who think they’re the tastiest flavor in the world. Thanks…

Just a quick post to let you know I’m slaving on the sexy geek list: this year it’s pretty overwhelming. For one, there are more amazing women (and people of all genders) than ever. I also research all the nominations and have my own lists culled all year long. I love it, because I discover…