This has to be one of my all-time favorite videos. Today Calpernia Addams posted Bad Questions to Ask a Transsexual: The Director’s Cut. She is hilarious, pissed off, sharp, on the money, off the hook and totally fucking fierce. My favorite is, of course, #4. Having trans women as my chosen family, it hits oh…

Image by Thomas Fricke, courtesy of Chaos, A Film Company. I’m really excited about this week’s column “Walk All Over Me,” The Movie. “Film fest comedy-thriller hit stars Leelee Sobieski and Battlestar Galactica’s Tricia Helfer (Number Six) as dominatrices; Violet Blue asks director Robert Cuffley about all the whips and guns.” Not only did I…

I forgot how much I loved Tones On Tail! And spanking. Courtney sent me this truly adorable YouTube spanking video, to the tune of Go.

You’ve come a long way, highly entertaining homosexual propaganda. I mean, baby. “Female deviation in normal sexual behavior greatly exceeds the male!”

Because beautiful Italian vampire lesbians from the 1970s never get old… Literally. The Soledad Miranda tribute (+ Vampyros Lesbos tribute album downloads) reminds me how insanely gorgeous she was, and how much I want one just like her. (Thanks, Praemedia!) * Her official site hurts my eyes, but has lots of images. Get a nice…

Our burning question over at Fleshbot right now, thanks to my pals Em and Lo who really mean well, they do: The Facial Money Shot: Yes or No? Yes, there’s a video, yes, there’s a poll — which I encourage you to click — but the real fun is in the comments. Definitely worth a…

* Amanda Congdon Returns to Web Video (newteevee.com). The person who sent me this does not get thanked, but is expected to either a) get me drunk before next weekend, or b) commit double suicide with me using only grapefruit spoons and ten gallons of Drano before the Earth flies off its course and into…

Photo by Daniel Meyer. This week’s SF Chronicle column is about a visit I made to a porn set last week; it was really my first time on a porn set, and it was a pretty intense shoot for my first visit. I actually left halfway through — a combination of exhaustion and discomfort, and…

Exhibit A: Bai Ling has a blog. Exhibit B: Seymore Butts’ book deal with Gotham called, “Things Your Father Never Had the Balls to Tell You” where he explains “(…) everything that a man in this modern age should know (…) I cover everything from how to be a cunning linguist to what to do…

Of all the women I’ve met in the world of sex, Lorelei Lee is one of the most brilliant, articulate and determinedly self-defined women I’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting. And I think she’s drop-dead gorgeous. Which all combines to make her the perfect interview subject for a topic that’s been on my mind…