Image by dott. dulcamara. Currently on deadline for three books due on the 1st, I’m swimming through the porny, playful fun of all the work while mitigating trying to remember to eat* (however, I seem to have no problem remembering to drink caffeine or alcohol) and wishing I could be writing for pure pleasure. I…
Category: Sex News
Detroit’s meanest strip club on 8 Mile goes upscale
This is a really interesting post from detroitblog — Dirty dancing is a nice long piece describing what happened when one man took a seriously scary, rough and hardcore strip club (mostly African American) and made it an upscale entertainment space. And the old customers where not happy — as in, shootings and more. It’s…
CarnalNation : This Week’s Column!
Image by Cut It Out You Guys. I’m excited that this week’s column is an interview with the driving force behind my favorite new online sex news and culture website, CarnalNation — I think it’s a must-add subscription for anyone who wants to keep up with sex news from an unbiased, sex-positive and straightforward perspective.…
Tuesday Nibbles Because Of… Tristan’s New Anal Sex Guide, Egyptian Court Band Porn Sites
Image by Just Bodies, where there are a lot more stunning erotic images. Last night after the San Francisco Street Art party, some dear friends made me dinner (mmm, it was delishus). But when the dinner began I managed to cut myself rather badly opening a bottle of wine. I think I’m actually going to…
The Sasha Grey Interview: This Week’s SF Chronicle Column
Here’s Grey in a sexy gallery. Hey, I interviewed Sasha Grey. It was cool. People who follow me on Twitter asked her questions, too. It’s neat. The film, and what Soderbergh is doing with it media-wise and in methodology is really quite fucking amazing. And a social experiment worth paying attention to. On SF Gate…
Wednesday Nibbles: Steam Powered Vibrator, Male Birth Control, More
Image of Sasha Grey from her very first bondage shoot *ever* (link includes videos). It’s midweek, and I’m finding things on the shag rug I think belong to porn stars and am wondering if the black scrape next to my headboard is from a stripper heel — not mine, alas. Maybe this weekend I can…
Creepily, all ur floggers are made in Pakistan
Image by Zackary Canepari for The New York Times. Okay, maybe not all your floggers, but this nicely unbiased New York Times article is really a mindfuck when you consider that the Taliban’s top weapon for beating people in the never-ever-sexy way is a whip. And when I searched Flickr for Karachi and flogger or…
SF Weekly’s Matt Smith Screws Kink.com: Unfair, Unbalanced, Malfeasant Journalism
Self-portrait goofing around with Peter Acworth. Things exploded here in San Francisco this week with Kink.com when two things happened: one, Kink got kicked out of a local state funded, nonprofit job enhancement training program — BAVC. I know a couple readers here not only have attended BAVC, but also have taught there, and are…
Pull out and pray : Chron column
Image by patre35. I recommend pulling out immediately. This is last week’s column, which I’d better get to you here before this week’s column is live. Have I been busy? Yes, and in the best ways possible. I have been doing things like modeling and spending time with loving friends offline, and chasing down the…
What the fuck, Amazon?
Image via phheww. Everyone and their mom is emailing and DMing me today about Amazon’s move to de-rank so-called “adult” books, including a national award winner. Basically they’re removing books for adult content from their sales ranks — not that they ever included any *actual* adult books in their official sales lists — but it’s…