- A new Northwestern University study has found that at least some self-identified bisexual men are sexually aroused by both men and women. This represents a reversal for researchers after several high-profile studies in recent years failed to prove sexual attraction to both genders, angering bisexual men and women who said the conclusion stereotyped bisexuals as closeted homosexuals. Bisexual Study: Northwestern researchers confirms existence of bisexuality + Astounding Validation of Bisexual Research, but Some Bi Community Leaders Snipe + No Surprise for Bisexual Men – Report Indicates They Exist (Slate, Examiner, NYT)
- Gay men that make out with women: “I’d feel more self-conscious copping to this habit of mine if I thought I were the only homosexual male in my set—educated, liberal, sexually exploratory—who indulged.” What It Means When Gay Men Kiss Women (Elle via Rachel Kramer Bussel)
- A female academic, Catherine Hakim, has ruffled feathers by saying women should use their ‘erotic capital’ to get ahead. Just show me the money, honey (Telegraph)
- A straight man that erotic dances in a gay bar says “ask me anything” and commenters do – covering gay for pay, penis size, fluffers and more. IAmA Straight Male Dancer at a Gay Bar AMA (Reddit)
- One, letting gay people get married will automatically remove that right from straight people. It’s in the small print, trust us. Two, gayness naturally corrodes secure hetero relationships. It does this by emitting an unusually high concentration of fabulon, a not-so-Noble gas. Logic eats the gay marriage scaremongers for breakfast (The Punch via Ms. Naughty)
- Everyone has insecurities, but it is important to not let them stand in the way of a truly satisfying and long-lasting relationship. The following will help you identify the insecurities that may be harming your relationship and what steps you can take to overcome them. How Insecurities Can Harm Your Relationship (TwoOfUs, via Charlie Glickman) (Examiner.com)
- Match.com settled a lawsuit brought by a sexual assault victim by agreeing Tuesday to conduct background checks on all members to screen out known sex offenders. The company’s promise to screen all members is expected to spark a new industry norm. Match.com agrees to screen for sex offenders to settle lawsuit (LA Times)
- This past January, Loftis was informed he had been suspended. Another employee had told Nautilus principal Allyn Bernstein, she wrote, that math teacher Loftis “had his own personal gay website.” When administrators Googled his “industry name,” they found “sexually explicit pictures” of — if our own search is any indication — the math sub engaging in nude acrobatics with buff, furry men. Miami-Dade teacher Shawn Loftis fired over gay porn career (Miami New Times)
Photo via Jessica Milan’s photostream.
Violet,
Thanks for making everyone welcome on your site. I think you’re the best sex resource for all genders and orientations, not just woman. I guess I’m surprised that this is major discovery. As a counselor once told me sexual orientation fluctuates over time for most people. Very few people are anchors at either end of the “strait” or “homosexual” spectrem.
It’s taken me a long time to get here, but it would be a wonderful place if everyone just played safe and enjoy all life has to offer.